11 Things Happy Couples Never Do
Happy
and healthy relationships require a lot of constant work from both
sides. We are going to focus on the 11 things people in happy and
healthy relationships never do.
They Don’t Take Each Other For Granted
People in healthy and
happy relationships know not to take each other for granted, they know
how to cherish each other and how to make each other happy.
They Don't Ignore Their Struggles
Healthy relationships
have a lot of ups and downs. The reason for that relationship to be so
strong is the will of both people and how they tackle their problems
rather than ignoring them.
They Don’t Fake How They Feel
Some people think
that by faking the way they feel or by nodding their heads they’d be
doing their relationship a solid, well they’re not. Be yourself, be true
to yourself and your partner.
They Don't Pretend To Be Someone They're Not
The key to a happy
and healthy relationship is to completely expose yourself to your
partner, don’t be scared and let them know everything about yourself. Be
your true self.
They Don’t Hold Grudges
Forgiveness has the
highest rewards and we all make mistakes. Forgive their mistakes and let
go of the anger, let go of the grudges and move on with them. Move
forward with them.
They Don’t Talk When It’s Time To Listen
It’s not easy to
speak your mind completely, it’s certainly not easy to spill your heart
out to someone, but it’s insanely difficult to just listen with an open
and willing mind. Happy couples are those who know when to speak and
when to listen.
They Don’t Take Everything To Heart
People in good and
happy relationships know not to take each and every little thing to
heart. They know not to let themselves be hurt by everything they hear
their partners say.
They Don’t Compare Each Other To Someone Else
Comparing your
partner to someone else (especially your ex) is the most horrible thing
you can do to them. Love them for who they are because they have their
own individuality. Comparing your partner to someone else only tells
them they aren’t good enough for you the way they are.
They Don’t Lie
When trust goes out
the window, it can never be rebuilt. Lying and cheating will only lead
to bad things. Be yourself and be the most truthful.
They Don’t Rush Their Relationship
People often tend to
rush their perfectly happy relationships in hopes of a happier tomorrow.
Stop rushing things. Spend every single day as if it were the first day
of your relationship. Cherish even the smallest of moments and create
memories each day as it goes by. Don’t stress about what’s next, just
keep at it and continue moving forward with life as it goes.
They Don’t Expect A Magical Solution
The key to a healthy
and happy relationship is to know when and where you can manage the
issue yourself and not to turn to your partner at every sign of trouble.
Be supportive and expect support, but learn to support yourself first.
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